This isn't a question, but an update. I have posted to
you several times before regarding my husband and his
quest for more parenting time with his children.
Well, it is over and my husband got EVERYTHING he wanted.
I still can't believe it. Yes, it cost us an arm and a
leg, but it is well worth it. He now has a 50/50 schedule
with his children. We were due for an all day hearing
next week, and his ex proposed a settlement instead of
going to trial. (Which is incredible considering the fact
that she did not budge one single inch over the course of
the last 14 months.) His ex tried everything over the
last few months...she supoenaed our financial records, she
accused my husband of abusing the children
(AGAIN)...nothing she did worked and ultimately, I think
it was her demise.
I would offer the advice to others that the high road pays
off. If you are dealing with a mudslinging ex...don't
sink to their level. And educate yourself...my husband
and I spent countless hours pouring over research that
helped our confidence and our case. The books mentioned
on this website are invaluable.
Thank you Eric!!!
For other readers, one of your posts from six months ago describes your situation... click here to read it
Persistence, taking the high road, and self-education about child custody matters is a pretty solid combination for success.
A person who doesn't commit to all three of those has a severe disadvantage in the long run.
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